I Love You Dad
My father always used to say that when you die, if you’ve got five real friends, then you’ve had a great life.
By —— Lee Iacocca
There is no doubt about that today I am going to talk about my dad. My dad is always a random variable to me. So far I can treat him; he has no steady value or form. He didn’t have any future plan. He is one of the most relaxed persons I have ever seen. He can’t think deeply. I am supposed to mention that all these are my average judgments about my dad. Regardless the fact that still now I am not a father. [But I have a strong desire to be a father before my marriage. 
lolzzz, sorry readers, I am just kidding….. 
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Let me move on to the track again. Beyond all these, I discovered my father for the last 2 days. Somehow, my muscle got shrink in my leg. It was giving me lots of pain. I had to go to my office with this injury. Only I and my GOD knew how much it had been paining. Last night, it was the time to go to sleep for my dad. He called me and asked me about my pain and gave me a massage with his caring and loving hands. I am an adult boy. More than couple of my friends is married. Some of them are recent fathers. At this age, a father touches his son’s leg and gives him a massage with a heavenly care. Fortunately, the son was me for getting the heavenly massage. At the same time, unfortunately, since I was the victim, the sinner was me as well. For me, my dad had to keep his hands in my leg. I am really out of pardon. Facing all these, I got a understand that I could never cross the bar of my father. He is really great. I don’t have objections any more. I really love you dad.
Let me tell you one more scenario. It’s about one of my very loving friend. It is obviously she 
You know, I don’t have any interest in boys. Lolzzzz.
Anyway, somehow I came to know that her father treats her as a hopeless. She has been treating as a hopeless girl from her childhood. To be very honest, it hurt me so much. How can a father treat her child as a hopeless? Where as, he is responsible to make the nest of dreams and hopes into his child. It is simply ridiculous. If you don’t encourage and support your child, he or she can never shine. If you blame your child as a hopeless, then I must say that all the failures are yours. You the father are the big hopeless since you couldn’t teach your child how to dream. I don’t know how I can make them understand. They are seniors to me. They are respectable to me. They are much more experienced to me as well. Then why didn’t they understand this simple thought that after all it’s your son or daughter, part of your own blood and life. Last but not least, just remember you will get back that much exactly what you served your child. It’s sad but true.
shahed said,
April 27, 2009 at 9:20 pm
Good article rock!
Every father loves his child.
One can express others can’t.
My father never expressed his love to me,
always suggested me to read and read.
I didn’t realize his love then.
But after this death i realized how much i loved him.
Now i have none to say “I love you dad”
Everyone should realize this truth ASAP.
Shahed
MSH Jewel said,
April 28, 2009 at 5:22 am
Rokon,
Dads are never Bad as said sometimes in prank coz any man can be a FATHER, but it takes a special person to be a DAD. It again proves that Good fathers make good sons, you’re no exception.
For the other instance I could simply say every father should remember that one day his son/daughter will follow his example instead of his advice.
Hats off to all DADs on earth
S. M. Asad Rahman said,
April 28, 2009 at 5:59 am
I lost my father Feb, 2008. Now I can understand how caring loving my [ each father in this world as well ]father was. He suffered for lever serosis for 6 months before his death. Very truly I did take care of my dad enough as I should be.
How much a father can love his son ? I have some allergy problem with cold weather. Just before his death.. when he was suffering extreme pain, couldn’t take his breath clearly.. even at that point he told me to take cautions & live carefully so that I don’t catch cold.
I love u dad..
Trisha said,
April 28, 2009 at 7:45 am
abbu ra shobshomoy ananno hoy……….
choto belay abbu-r hat dhore shobuj ghase bhora math-e hata hok kinba prothombar bag kadhe jhulie abbu-r shathe school-e jawa hok……….
kinba simply exm-e not so bad result korar por o ammu-r rudromurti dharon abbu-r nichok dushto shashon shudhu matro oi rudromurti man ammu-r hat theke rehai dewar jonno………
othoba 1ta bakko…….. bhalo bhabe jeo………..
shob…….shob kichur anubhuti shobshomoy anakankhito priyo brishtir motoi adbhut shundor………..
amar abbu-o deeply chinta korena……..ami na chaileo amake dhore political science-r boi poray.karon bhabe amar debate-r jonno bhalo……..
ei je choto choto bhalo laga gulo
shob khub shundor……….
so…….
jeta pray i boli……
spend some gud time wid ur parents…….
nd aj bolchi specially wid ur dad..
amra bhabi ammu ra ektu eka thake
kintu kokhono bhabi na
life-r dour jhap-e abbu-o majhe majhe eka hoe pore………….
Nadia Ahmed said,
April 28, 2009 at 11:07 am
Dad ….. is an ideal of inspiration , someone who holds ur hand at the time u need , someone who is always there beside u …. yes everyone loves their dad ……. my dad ….. did raise me that way …. never let me realize tht i m his daughter ….. helped me to stand on my own , not on my feet , bt independently …. yes i love my dad !
Rubel said,
August 20, 2009 at 5:10 am
Dads are such person who mantain a destance with his chid but they always loves them.
Good post…